Getting back with ex?
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charlottes-odd 
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 Posted: 09:30AM Jul 30, 2012 |
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Hey so i really want to know if people think you should get back with an ex? Im not going to go into detail, but my boyfriend broke up with me just over a month ago, and it was done in a very bad way for reasons that didnt actually have anything to do with me. Ive been left very hurt by the whole thing and its left me literally terrified of relationships. But ive just been stupid enough to just get back in touch with him, even though im still very hurt and cant trust him. A part of me wants him back, then the other parts thinking i dont and i really shouldnt get back with him. My best mate literally just begged me not to get back with him because she knows what he done to me and how badly relationships have effected me, and she gets very worried about me. So what does everyone think? I know Braingles not really the best place to ask this sort of thing but i havent got anywhere else to ask. And please no nasty comments, my minds a mess right now and i just need a bit of advice   any advice and help is really appreciated
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Coleen
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Posted: 03:08PM Jul 30, 2012 |
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Hello Charlotte!
I'm sorry that your going thru this. You need to ask yourself a few things first before getting back with an Ex. Does the reason you broke up cause distrust? Is he trustworthy? I f you answer no, then maybe you might want to think about that. It won't be a good relationship if you can't trust him. Your only looking to go thru that breakup again. Was there more good or more bad in the relationship? More bad then good, then your only setting your self up for hurt again. I know it's really hard. Time does heal things, I know it's hard to believe that, but it's true. Just take your time, do things for yourself, eventually you will meet that Mr. Right who will treat you like you should be treated! Relationships are hard & when they hurt we tend to put a wall up. I have, as far as having a best girlfriend! The last one really hurt me, but as time went on, the pain did subside. Good luck in your decision, just make sure it's the right one for you. Pm me any time you want to talk or throw a few things at me!
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wyse 
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Posted: 01:09PM Aug 28, 2012 |
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Charlotte, whatever you do just make sure you want to do it
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charlottes-odd
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Posted: 01:55PM Aug 28, 2012 |
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Hey thanks for the support  ive decided to keep him out my life now since i know he would have kept hurting me and i think thats the best decision i could have made  thanks everyone!!
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