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GreenApples27*nz

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new Posted: 01:36AM Oct 18, 2011

Recently a video has been all over the news of a two year old Chinese girl being run over, and is ignored, whilst dying in the throughway, by over a dozen pedestrians, and also run over once more by another vehicle.

What kind of behaviour is that? It is truly disgusting. How could you walk straight past a poor little girl and not get her to a hospital, let alone pay any attention to her at all? I'm not going to turn this into a race related topic, because I don't think that would be very fair, but I just could not see this happening in New Zealand. I don't know about you guys? Could you see this ever happening where you live?

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spud*nz

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new Posted: 03:18AM Oct 18, 2011

Greenapples I agree I definitely couldn't see that being done, done here in Christchurch because now our community feeling for each other is so much stronger now, but I couldn't see it happening anywhere around NZ.

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Steve1973Aus

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new Posted: 06:19AM Oct 18, 2011

I could see it happening right here where I live. In fact, as callous as it sounds, I could see myself being one of those pedestrians who just walk on by if I was there in China...

What the video doesn't show you is the general state of the country of China. For years now, good Samaritans have been taken to court and sued by the very people they try to help. Not once. Not twice. But over and over and over...

Read the link HERE to understand a bit of the feeling the people have over in China. Everyone wants to help another person when they see them in need, but no one wants to end up being tied up in a large lawsuit because the other person claimed wrong doing.

See a person help once and get sued, and it's bad. See another person help and get sued, and it leaves a bad taste in the mouth. See 50 people help and get sued by the people who they're helping, and then tell me how apathetic you've became.

Times are tight, people are sue happy, and China has no protection for Good Samaritans. It's a shame that the crooks have abused the system so much that the decent people are now afraid to help each other out anymore, but that's what's happened.


Holding a piece of paper that states "I fell on the floor by myself. Nobody pushed me," a man says to an old person who has fallen on the ground, "Please sign this agreement before I help you."


The woman on the right exclaims, "Let's go help her!" while the man says, "Who would dare to? There are no surveillance cameras around here!"


Hordes of passersby stand around and gawk while a man comes to the assistance of an old man who has fallen to the ground, but before he does so, he takes a few pictures. "I can't help it," he says. "I'm just protecting myself."



It's a shame that a person can't help another in need anymore, without fear that it might come back to bite ya in the arse.


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snappytom*

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new Posted: 07:01AM Oct 18, 2011

Unfortunately, it is a part of the human affliction.
It will come to a town near you, eventually.


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new Posted: 12:55PM Oct 18, 2011

I have to agree, GA. What is this world coming to?

I live in a small town, honestly I don't think such a thing would happen here. Perhaps in a big city unfortunately it could and has happened, but in small town America, I believe with few exceptions, people look out for one another and are willing to "get involved" as necessary. All I can say is I'm glad I don't live in China.


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ShadowsAcamod

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new Posted: 06:49PM Oct 18, 2011

Get real, people. This happens everywhere - and if not this specifically, then something just as bad. GA and spud, how well do you know New Zealand? Not as well as you'd like to think. It's a pretty big place, and there are plenty of parts you've never been to and will never want to go to. Unless every New Zealander is perfectly pleasant and compassionate and every place in NZ is a true paradise, I find it hard to believe that nothing this bad ever happens there.

For example, I think my city is wonderful. But I live in the suburbs, not downtown. No one in their right mind - at least that I know of - would ever go downtown alone at night, especially not the smaller streets. It's dangerous. Downtown is the reason why we are/were the murder capital of the country.

My point is, the parts of NZ that you've seen may be great, but there are also parts where bad things happen. That's always the case, especially when you're talking about a whole country. It's unrealistic to deduce that just because you've never seen anything like this happen in NZ, nothing like this actually happens.

Similarly, Bobbi, it's also unrealistic to say that all of China is bad, and that the people who live there are unlucky or something. I lived in China for the first eight years of my life: I lived in a prosperous neighbourhood in the good part of the city, and as far as I know, I was never left to die in the streets when I was two years old. With all places, there are good parts and bad parts. To use my earlier example, it would be unfair to say that Winnipeg must be a terrible place to live because it is the murder capital of Canada. The area where I live is the kind where you can leave your car in the driveway with the doors unlocked overnight.

By the way:

GreenApples27 wrote:
What kind of behaviour is that? It is truly disgusting. How could you walk straight past a poor little girl and not get her to a hospital, let alone pay any attention to her at all?


What kind of behaviour is that? It is truly disgusting. How could you walk straight past a poor homeless man and not get him some food and warm clothes, let alone pay any attention to him at all?

What's the difference? Bad things happen everywhere.


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new Posted: 07:13PM Oct 18, 2011

Of course you are right about China, Shady. I think I was reacting mostly to Steve's post more than anything. I guess the point I need to make is small communities are less likely to encounter such behavior, probably due to the fact that there are just fewer people involved. And I was also reacting to GA's information regarding a two year old child who is involved in the particular incident he is referring to. Okay, now I'll shut up and behave myself.

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GreenApples27*nz

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new Posted: 07:43PM Oct 18, 2011

I didn't want to turn this into a race issue. I knew I shouldn't have added that bit on the end.
I'm just saying, the amount of people who passed that girl on the road, it's just unrealistic to see it happening in New Zealand. New Zealand is a small country of only about 4 million people. I genuinely 100% believe that no where in our country would it happen.

As for your homeless man argument, that's definitely different to a girl being run over by a car.
A homeless man can apply for certain jobs elsewhere, and most homeless men who often want food aren't in such a bad condition as this girl. I don't think they're anywhere near related. This little girl was helpless and injured.

I was never meaning that China as a country was bad, more so I was meaning the people involved were just horrible. How could they bear to just pass a little girl like that? Reports revealed that the girl died due to head injuries suffered in the accident. I just don't see how any human could just walk past it, and consider their own errands to be more important than the life of a small child.
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Steve1973Aus

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new Posted: 08:13PM Oct 18, 2011

bradon182001 wrote:
I think I was reacting mostly to Steve's post more than anything. I guess the point I need to make is small communities are less likely to encounter such behavior, probably due to the fact that there are just fewer people involved.


What you say is quite true, even in China.

On September 6, the Chinese Health Ministry issued a 41-page set of guidelines that was two years in the making, which called "Technical Guidelines on Intervention When an Old Person Has Fallen Down". In this guideline, it is recommended not hurry to help the fallen elderly immediately, but to offer different aids based on differing situations.

By early afternoon on September 7, "Ministry of Health" had become the second-most popular trending topic among the 200 million users of Sina. The online discussion often was contemptuous, especially about the length of the state guidelines for helping the elderly and their inapplicability to real-life circumstances.

Shui Yinhe, a freelance journalist, tweeted on Sina Weibo:

What a guideline. If the senior citizen falls, he should be accompanied by their family members to the hospital. But if we can't get in touch with them, what can we do? Let them wait to die?

Where others saw the Ministry of Health's incompetence, some saw humor. The topic of the guidelines became a platform for the spontaneous gallows humor that is characteristic of China's microblogging masses.

A Sina Weibo user who goes by "Textbook" took the popular approach of offering some of his own guidelines:

1. Call 120 [the Chinese emergency number]. 2. Look around to see if there's a watchdog or wait for more people to come, and then help the elderly person. 3. Take photos using your cell phone in case tragedy happens ... 4. If you are in areas outside the mainland, you don't have to do any of this and you can act normally.


Even the people in China recognize that the problem is more prevalent in large cities, and not as bad in rural areas. There's just something about rural areas that brings people closer together, and seems to encourage a stronger social bond, and that holds true in China just as much as it does anywhere else.

One thing I've learned as I've gotten older: No matter how different we think we are from another culture/place, it's mainly just surface wrapping. People are people all over the world, and the human heart isn't no different in China than it is in the USA, or England, or New Zealand, or anywhere else.

These people in China weren't any more callous than people anywhere else in the world would be, if they were in an environment like that. In fact, take the USA for example. Just a few years back, in California, a woman drove by a car crash and saw the driver trapped inside the car. Fearing the vehicle would catch fire, she pulled the driver from the car and moved her to safety. The driver sued because they claimed she improperly moved them and paralyzed them with her actions. The case went all the way to the California Supreme Court, but in the long (loooooooooooong) run, the woman was cleared of wrong doing. BUT, had the case went the other way, imagine what the public reaction would have been!!

Are we really all that different than our Chinese counterparts?


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ShadowsAcamod

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new Posted: 10:23PM Oct 18, 2011

GreenApples27 wrote:
New Zealand is a small country of only about 4 million people. I genuinely 100% believe that no where in our country would it happen.


I suppose I can accept that it would be unrealistic to see pedestrians and a car trampling a dying little girl in New Zealand, due to the low population density. However, my point is that worse things do happen there (look up the violent crime statistics if an example is required), so I don't see what you're trying to prove by saying that such a thing would never happen where you live. If you're just trying to express how inconceivable and beyond imagination such behaviour is, fine; I'll leave it alone.

GreenApples27 wrote:
How could they bear to just pass a little girl like that? Reports revealed that the girl died due to head injuries suffered in the accident. I just don't see how any human could just walk past it, and consider their own errands to be more important than the life of a small child.


Before I say anything about this, let me make it clear that THIS IS NO EXCUSE FOR THEIR BEHAVIOUR. It's just an attempt at looking at the issue from another perspective - a very insensitive perspective. Viewers' discretion is advised; not all of this is my opinion.

To begin with, when you're walking in a tight crowd, it's really hard to: (a) see where you're stepping; (b) avoid any obstacles; and (c) stop. This is especially true during rush hour. Depending on the speed and density of the crowd, it may be physically impossible to go back and help the child. As for the car that ran over her, well, it's even harder for them. From what I remember, traffic in Chinese cities is brutal. There are cars tailgating, squeezing in between lanes, and honking at each other. Changing lanes requires a LOT of skill and patience. It would be virtually impossible to avoid the child on the ground, let alone open your car door (sometimes it's so bad that you don't even have room to open your door), leave, pick up the child, and come back to your car (at which point the cars behind you will be honking loudly enough to wake the dead).

I should've explained the homeless man analogy better, but I had to leave and didn't have time. I guess it's kind of hard to read my mind. Basically, what I'm saying is that it's impossible to help every homeless man you come across. You can devote your whole life to helping them, but you still wouldn't get around to helping every single one of them. What if, in this area of China, there happen to be lots of sad cases like the one of this little girl? (By the way, GA, care to post a link or something? You never did say how the girl got there in the first place. Was she abandoned or something? Anyway...) You could be the Good Samaritan and help them out, but there does come a point where enough is enough. It's impossible to help every single helpless person. People are selfish; we're willing to help others as long as we don't have to compromise ourselves. Do I want to help the helpless all day long, or do I want to live my own life and be my own person and not have to do with the tragedies of the world? I think most people would openly profess the former and secretly believe in the latter.

The little girl is one in a thousand, in a million; after seeing a few dozen children in her situation, one may become desensitised. I have been desensitised to the issue of homelessness. I certainly think that it's a very serious issue, but I'm not doing anything about it, now am I?

Instead of complaining about people not helping the little girl, perhaps we should look at the cause of the problem. Why was the girl there in the first place? That way, measures can be put into place to prevent other children from being in her situation. Otherwise, we could help them until the end of time, and there would still be more of them.


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GreenApples27*nz

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new Posted: 10:57PM Oct 18, 2011

Hm, I'll post you think link, however it is age restricted on youtube, so you need to be over a certain age to watch it. So you need a youtube account to watch it.
However, I think if you google "chinese girl run over ignored", I'm sure you'll get a link to the video anyway.

Her mother was in a shop, I think, and she just stumbled out.

Anyway, for those who might want to click on the link, I do warn you it is some horrible footage, and you may not want to view it. It is not edited or anything like that, so it is rather terrible and gruesome stuff.

I just think that from the footage shown, there was a complete lack of care or selflessness.

As for the NZ comment I made, I think it probably is just something I can not conceive to happen anywhere. I didn't even expect it to happen at all. So, really, I guess it could've happened anywhere, and I'd still hold the same views. So yes, I'm sorry for implying that New Zealand is a more caring country than China.
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Steve1973Aus

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new Posted: 11:28PM Oct 18, 2011

Shadows wrote:
To begin with, when you're walking in a tight crowd, it's really hard to: (a) see where you're stepping; (b) avoid any obstacles; and (c) stop. This is especially true during rush hour. Depending on the speed and density of the crowd, it may be physically impossible to go back and help the child. As for the car that ran over her, well, it's even harder for them. From what I remember, traffic in Chinese cities is brutal. There are cars tailgating, squeezing in between lanes, and honking at each other. Changing lanes requires a LOT of skill and patience. It would be virtually impossible to avoid the child on the ground, let alone open your car door (sometimes it's so bad that you don't even have room to open your door), leave, pick up the child, and come back to your car (at which point the cars behind you will be honking loudly enough to wake the dead).


The problem is, that's not at all what happened. The girl was ran over by a truck (who hit her with the front wheels, stopped for a second, and then ran over her again with the back wheels), and then 18 people pass her by in the course of the next 7 minutes while she just lies there in the street, during which time another vehicle runs over her once again...

Video link of the incident is HERE, but it's quite graphic and requires you to be registered as 18+ on youtube to watch.

People are selfish; we're willing to help others as long as we don't have to compromise ourselves.


Honestly, this is what the whole situation boils down to in a nutshell. China has no protections or Good Samaritan Laws, and lots of people have been sued over the last 5 or 6 years for helping another person, so everyone's now afraid that they'd compromise themselves if they get involved.

Instead of complaining about people not helping the little girl, perhaps we should look at the cause of the problem. Why was the girl there in the first place? That way, measures can be put into place to prevent other children from being in her situation. Otherwise, we could help them until the end of time, and there would still be more of them.


I've wondered why the girl was all alone as well. The incident took over 7 minutes, and the child's mother is nowhere around during that whole time. Where was she? And how long had the 2 year old wandered unsupervised before she'd even gotten hit? Why is there no outrage for the mother's lack of supervision? I can understand why the people who passed by didn't help -- they were scared of retribution, lawsuits, and simply getting involved -- but where was her own parents this whole time??

China needs to enact protections for those who help another in need, so that they won't be afraid to help each other, and that mother needs to be held responsible for letting her daughter wander off like that. Saying the people who passed by are inhumane, savage beasts does nothing to address the root of the problem. The people who walked by were simply people. Not beasts. Not insensitive clods. Not demon-spawn walking the earth. They were simply people too scared to get involved.

And THAT is where the outrage needs to be, and THAT is what needs to change. "People are selfish; we're willing to help others as long as we don't have to compromise ourselves." China HAS to change it's laws so that people aren't compromised by helping another, or else what you see and hear about here will never change.


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GreenApples27*nz

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new Posted: 12:06AM Oct 19, 2011

Then, essentially, the problem is China, and therefore you're going back to the point that things like that wouldn't happen in other countries, because other countries have Good Samaritan Laws. So, you say it may not be that the people are such horrible people, but it's just that they can't feel as if they can act to help. But I still believe that anyone who doesn't help someone who is helpless and dying, is insensitive and cruel. It just is not right, not humane, to ignore a girl dying. Especially the two vehicles that ran over her. To not stop is just cowardly.

And so about the laws thing, I guess that's why I can't conceive it happening in New Zealand. We have laws in place to protect people trying to help someone else out. I don't hear many cases in New Zealand where someone is trying to sue someone for incorrectly helping them. However, I hear that suing people is so common in other countries, to me, it sounds like a hobby.

Yes, there may be a bigger reason why these people didn't help the girl, but the bottom line is that they didn't help or react in enough time to save this girl's life. So while they are walking free with no lawsuits hanging on their shoulders, they still have to live with the fact that this poor girl is six feet under. It sounds morbid to say it, but the truth of this matter is morbid. If that initial car had stopped and gotten out, then that girl would probably still be alive.

As for the mother not being around, yes that's poor parenting. But that's a whole 'nother issue. Accidents do happen where naturally you can't be watching your child every second of every day, especially if you're in a store looking to buy things (which I think she was), and so it isn't completely the mother's fault that this girl is dead. You can't pin it down onto one person, not in this situation. It was really a combination of the mother, the vehicle owner, and in my opinion, the passerby's. Sure, they did nothing to cause the ACCIDENT, but the fact they did nothing after the accident had been caused, yes that contributed to her DEATH.

And I hope this isn't turning entirely political, and I hope we're not forgetting the fact that a little girl was hit and killed. Horrible.
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Steve1973Aus

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new Posted: 12:36AM Oct 19, 2011

GreenApples27 wrote:
Sure, they did nothing to cause the ACCIDENT, but the fact they did nothing after the accident had been caused, yes that contributed to her DEATH.

And I hope this isn't turning entirely political, and I hope we're not forgetting the fact that a little girl was hit and killed. Horrible.


Except the girl isn't DEAD. She's still in the hospital, in a coma at the moment, recovering. If you're going to capitalize and emphasize something, at least make certain what you're stressing is the truth for people. ;)

HERE'S an updated link to the girl's story and condition.

One thing I did find VERY interesting about the article:
The distraught parents have avoided voicing their feelings over the incident, saying they wanted only to focus on Yueyue's recovery, but her grandfather, named as Mr Wang, admitted to a local newspaper that he "hated those cold-blooded passers-by".

He added that he had recognised at least one of the passersby. "I wanted to beat him, but at last I held myself back," he was quoted as saying in the Southern Metropolis Daily.


So one of the people passing by knew the family and probably the girl? And STILL did nothing? Apparently there's more to the story, or else the person walking by KNEW the family was one of those sue-happy types, and didn't feel comfortable getting involved.

What type of people are your neighbors when they can't help your child who's bleeding in the street? What type of person are you, where your neighbors wouldn't help? There's a massive problem in the mix there somewhere, and I don't know if it's the parents or the neighbors, but I think that family ought to move either way...

The situation has become quite famous though. Even the People's Daily had to write a piece about it.
"Although saving people constantly brings 'trouble,' nonetheless, ignoring the dying or even helping with evil acts by negligence is ripping apart society's ethical baseline and dissolving any sense of conscience deep in the souls of the public," wrote a senior columnist, Li Hongbing.


They admit saving people constantly brings 'trouble', and yet they still expect people to do it? Sounds messed up to me. You don't run into a burning building to save someone, because you want to keep yourself safe and out of trouble, and you don't help people up off the street in China anymore, for the same self-preservation. Telling people that " ignoring the dying or even helping with evil acts by negligence is ripping apart society's ethical baseline and dissolving any sense of conscience deep in the souls of the public" isn't going to change a thing, as long as "saving people constantly brings 'trouble.'

Fix it so people can save others without getting in trouble, and people might start saving each other once again.


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new Posted: 12:39AM Oct 19, 2011

I watched an abbreviated video of the incident on Fox News... and in their description they stated:

"Video of the incident, which took place Oct. 13, shows pedestrians and vehicles passing by the toddler, named Yueyue, after she was run over outside her family's shop in the Chinese city of Foshan.

The graphic video shows the van driver slightly hesitate before running the girl over."

So the mother may have been working in the store helping a customer and did not realize her child had walked out of the building... but that still does not excuse her.

As I watched the video, it does amaze me that many did not even look down at the little girl; though they rode their scooters and bikes around her.

I think it is one thing to be unable to stop for a wide variety of reasons (not necessarily good reasons, but reasons none the less), but there did seem to be some who looked like they wanted to stop, even slowed up and looked like they were going to do something. These are the people who I got more mad at... ok, you don't want to be held liable for moving the child... but you can still protect the child from getting more injuries by standing by her and directing traffic... hopefully even yell out for someone to get help.

I agree with Steve when he posted: "China needs to enact protections for those who help another in need, so that they won't be afraid to help each other, and that mother needs to be held responsible for letting her daughter wander off like that." I also hope your holding responsible for the daughter's injury also goes to the van driver who even hesistated before hitting her, then drove off?

And for the trash worker who picked the little girl up and took her out of harms way... I do hope she is rewarded, not punished in any way.


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GreenApples27*nz

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new Posted: 12:44AM Oct 19, 2011

Sorry, I read elsewhere that she had died.
I still think that you can't relate this situation to one of a burning building. People don't go into a burning building because it could often leave both the rescuer and rescued dead. In this situation they aren't in danger and dying. They are only in danger of facing a lawsuit, but really, that should be not enough to make someone not help another in need.

What this shows is the disturbing nature of the situation... and where their priorities are.
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new Posted: 12:56AM Oct 19, 2011

I just read an article written 16 hours ago where they said she might be in a vegetative state for the rest of her life. I did not see any article that said she died, but it wouldn't surprise me. Edit: I did read another article where they said she was brain dead and could die at any time.

The article had at least one bright little comment:
"The one person who attracted universal praise for her warmheartedness was Yueyue's rescuer, 58-year-old Chen Xianmei who was said to work as a domestic helper by day and supplement her income by collecting rubbish for recycling at night.

Yueyue's parents were photographed meeting the woman, bowing down in a ritual 'kowtow' – a public expression of gratitude that she had stopped to help their daughter when so many others had walked on by.

The woman said she had thought about the risk of malicious prosecution when she intervened to help Yueyue – the reason widely given in China why 18 others did not stop to help – adding that she responded instinctively.

She told reporters she had found Yueyue with one eye shut and the other eye open looking at her and had rushed around searching for her mother. "I didn't think I was getting into any trouble. I didn't think so much. I just wanted to help her," she said, before returning to work."

So there really is hope for the people in China... some do know the right thing to do.


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Steve1973Aus

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new Posted: 01:04AM Oct 19, 2011

GreenApples27 wrote:
They are only in danger of facing a lawsuit, but really, that should be not enough to make someone not help another in need.

What this shows is the disturbing nature of the situation... and where their priorities are.


The problem here is what the lawsuit might result in. Most people are living day-to-day, paycheck-to-paycheck, barely scraping by in the global recession. IF they should happen to lose a lawsuit for some form of negligence while trying to help the child, could they pay off the debt they incurred? Probably not.

If not, what happens to people who don't pay their debts in China?

Some unsecured creditors (including banks) hire debt collection agencies that at times use aggressive debt collection techniques. Some of these agencies resort to harassment, coercion, and the public humiliation of the debtor—and in some instances even arson—in demanding repayment.

For large debts, creditors generally consider the Hong Kong, China legal system for debt collection to be effective and efficient. However, given the high costs involved in debt collection, the same cannot be claimed when speaking of the collection of smaller debts. The fact that many individuals and even some companies rely on debt collection companies that use high pressure (and at times illegal) debt collection techniques demonstrates some dissatisfaction with the effectiveness and/or cost efficiency of the appropriate legal channels.


So help out, get sued, owe a lot of money, and then be harassed, coerced, humiliated, and burned out of house and home. Or go to court, face the legal system, and possibly get tossed into jail.

Or just not help the person who's suffering, and keep yourself safe. Most people like to say that they'd help without reservation, but I really don't think they would. Self-preservation is one of the cornerstones of the human condition.


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new Posted: 01:42AM Oct 19, 2011

Along with GreenApples post at the top:
"So yes, I'm sorry for implying that New Zealand is a more caring country than China."
I am also sorry if I did this as well, but we just can't see it happening in NZ because we are so much smaller.


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SilverWitchtus

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new Posted: 02:34AM Oct 19, 2011

I only heard about this on a Christian radio station today, right after a bit about how some Chinese parents would consent to multiple abortions in order to have a son as opposed to a girl. Not taking an asserted position on abortion, or even against Chinese people (I'm part Chinese and I've lived in China for quite a while, of course never experiencing anything to this extent), but it really does show what some places are missing. I don't want to blame their government structure or their strange thinking, but there's something there that just screams, "downfall".

Couple inputs: Yes, it's definitely true that there have been cases when an elder person has fallen and the family used the incident to file a lawsuit on the person who took time and effort just to show some generosity. But seriously? It was just falling down! That was the highest cost that the family had to "pay". Who would think, after having their 2-year-old be run over, just to look for money from a lawsuit? Surely the passersby saw that she was RUN OVER and not pushed, so if they didn't have a car to begin with, how could they be blamed?

And it really irked me to see the reasoning behind the driver's decision to continue running over her. First of all, there was a huge distance between him and the girl when she was visible to him, unless he's a terrible driver, but I won't get into that. No hesitation, in fact, to me it looked like he went even faster. It was about money. If she died, he would have to pay less. I'm swearing at him for his selfishness.

It's sad beyond words. Even if to the passersby she looked dead already lying there in a pool of her own blood, don't walk by just leaving her in the middle of the street. I may come off as a jerk sometimes, I admit, but I can't bear to see something this bad go by without at least doing whatever I can to help. And those shopkeepers telling the person who DID help to mind her own business. So very sad. I've never experienced anything this extreme before, but I admit, I've been taken advantage of whenever I did decide to be generous, but that isn't going to stop me. Because someone, someday, is going to need help, for real.

And yes, she died (well actually, unconfirmed reports say so, but still, could it be otherwise, if so, then what good would it do if she had to live like that?). Even if the people around you didn't care, there are people shedding their tears for you.

I admit, I'm only 13 But I just felt the need to see it in order to understand. The streets weren't crowded at all, and nearly everyone turned their head to stare. The shopkeepers nearby didn't even bother either. I don't think this is a reason to hate China, or all Chinese people (the station I was listening to even suggested boycotting Chinese goods, which may be a little extreme, it's not like you should deprive the Chinese of a lifestyle just because some people from the same country showed this heartless behavior, which in the end is just as heartless and is avoiding the problem), but perhaps a time to show more kindness. Even if the Good Samaritans are getting sued, or anyone else that bothers to help, there shouldn't be a need to feel endangered every time you think of doing a kind deed. But unfortunately, that's what the world is coming to.


---This message was edited on 02:37AM Oct 19, 2011---

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